here we end up in life largely depends on the actions we take. Action, or lack of action, is motivated by having the right mindset. And a proper mindset can mean the difference between a long life and an early death.
The average life expectancy for an American male is 72, but the average life expectancy for a male police officer is just 59! I have been in law enforcement for more than 24 years and came across this alarming statistic about 10 years ago. My first thought was that it wouldn’t be me; I was still taking names and putting criminals in jail. Little did I know, I was walking a perfect path toward becoming that exact statistic.
Enthusiastically, I grabbed my willpower by the horns and went to work, determined to change my health and fitness. I joined a gym and researched all the fad diets. What I want to tell you is that the story ends there with me riding off into the sunset with health on my right shoulder and fitness on the other. Not so much! I had no idea that willpower was like a muscle, and if I exercised it too often during the day, I might not have anything left at the end of the day. Muscles indeed fatigued quickly and the struggle was real. The weight came back on as quickly as it went off and this time it brought friends.
I couldn’t understand how I ended up on the same path. I had the tools: gym, weights, treadmill. I had the knowledge. So why was I not successful? I didn’t have the mindset.
Here are Some Tips to Change Your Mindset:
- Find your WHY power
I once attended a seminar by Darren Hardy, who gave an excellent illustration of WHY power. He asked, “If I told you that I would give you $10 to walk across a four-inch beam that’s six inches from the ground, would you do it?” My reply: “Uh, that’s an easy $10!” Suppose this same beam was strung between two skyscrapers. Would you still walk across it for $10 dollars? “Uh, you must be crazy. Heck no!” Suppose your loved one, child, spouse or parent was on the other side and the building was on fire. Would you walk across it then?” I didn’t even think twice. My answer was not just yes but “Heck yes, and you can keep your $10.” This is your WHY power.
- Change your subtraction mindset to an addition mindset
“I’m on a diet and can’t eat that!” How many times have you heard or said that? Instead of thinking “I can’t eat that,” starting thinking “Yes, I can eat that, but I’m going to be smart about it.”
Pizza is in my blood, it’s in my veins, and it’s on my face. I know I shouldn’t eat a large meat lovers pizza with a cheese-filled crust and extra cheese, but I’m certainly not going to subtract pizza from my diet. Instead, I’ll order a thin crust with light meat and light cheese. The same mindset can be applied toward fitness. I truly dislike running, but I know I need that cardiovascular component in my exercise plan. So I do high-intensity interval training (HIIT) workouts, which are shorter in duration but give me the same benefit. Find an alternative you can and like to do. If you don’t enjoy doing it, you won’t stick with it.
- Interrupt the pattern
Many of our day-to-day actions are automatic, like getting out of bed, walking into the bathroom and grabbing our toothbrush and toothpaste. It’s automatic because the task is programmed so we don’t have to think about it. One day, I decided to put my toothbrush in the drawer and the next morning it threw my whole routine out of whack. Why? I interrupted the pattern, the programming, the habit. I say, “When there’s disruption, change will follow.” Take a step back, look at what you need to change and find a way to interrupt your current pattern.
- Have a plan, plan to fail, and have a back-up plan
My wife and I love cruising, and typically the moment I gain my sea legs it’s game on. The welcoming buffet, yes! The snack an hour later, yes! The drinks, the dinner, the nightcap, then room service, yes! It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Have a plan and don’t jump overboard if you can’t stick to it. Plan to fail but have that back-up plan in place. You’ll still see me at that welcoming buffet, but I don’t need to gorge. I’ll still have that snack, but it doesn’t need to be an hour later. I will drink and order room service, but I’m smarter with my selections. As long as I plan for setbacks and have a back-up plan in place, I’ve succeeded.
In addition to his law enforcement credentials, Dunn is an A.F.A.A. certified personal trainer and A.F.A.A. and A.C.E. certified group fitness instructor. He holds a level 1 certification from Precision Nutrition, and as a Master Trainer for Beachbody he has certified hundreds of instructors across the country. He has won more than 11 bodybuilding competitions and is the cadre leader for the Anchorage Police Department Wellness Program.
In addition to his law enforcement credentials, Dunn is an A.F.A.A. certified personal trainer and A.F.A.A. and A.C.E. certified group fitness instructor. He holds a level 1 certification from Precision Nutrition, and as a Master Trainer for Beachbody he has certified hundreds of instructors across the country. He has won more than 11 bodybuilding competitions and is the cadre leader for the Anchorage Police Department Wellness Program.